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relationalex-partner's infidelity
#RI-69a917f1·2 months ago·
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Lookback: 36 days after breakup

ended the relationship after finding out about his infidelity

I felt betrayed and hurt by his infidelity and control in the relationship

What I wish I knew
"I wish I had known about his insecurity and control issues earlier"
If I could tell you one thing
"Be aware of red flags and communicate openly with your partner"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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relational decisions logged. Avg regret 7.6/10 across the category.
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