What Actually Happened
I ended up having an emotional connection with someone else while my husband was going through therapy, which ultimately led to him wanting a divorce
What I wish I knew
"I wish I had been more honest with myself about my feelings and needs in the relationship"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Be honest with yourself and your partner about your feelings and needs, and don't be afraid to communicate them"
Regret Score
10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
relational Category Average
?%
of relational decisions share a similar regret distribution. (Coming soon)
Impact
-
Financial and Psychosocial impact distributions for this subset.
Advice for Someone Facing This
Short, upvotable wisdom. The most helpful rises to the top.
No advice yet. Be the first to share wisdom.
React, question, or discuss this decision.