ParentingChild Development
#RI-6adf4af3·about 2 months ago·
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“Trying to motivate 4 year old”
What Actually Happened
She refuses to do things for herself when I'm around, but can do them with others
What I wish I knew
"Why she's so stubborn when I'm there"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Set clear expectations and let them learn at their own pace"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Parenting Category
141
Parenting decisions logged. Avg regret 5.6/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
52%
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