relationalabuse
#RI-6ae17394·3 months ago·
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“let him walk all over me”
What Actually Happened
He took advantage of my patience and kindness, then became abusive when I stood up for myself
What I wish I knew
"I deserved respect regardless of his ADHD"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't tolerate emotional abuse, set boundaries"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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relational Category
129
relational decisions logged. Avg regret 7.7/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
78%
of relational decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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