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RelationshipEmotional Labor
#RI-6ac5c3df·5 months ago·
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“Feeling like sole emotional manager in a relationship”

Constantly managing emotional aspects of the relationship, feeling exhausted and uneasy

What I wish I knew
"Partnership should be a shared responsibility"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly and equally to avoid emotional labor"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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