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#RI-6ad0517e·about 1 month ago·
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“Cheated on me while we were together”

My ex-wife had an emotional affair and slept with someone else while we were still together, then lied about it and eventually admitted to a full-blown relationship

What I wish I knew
"To be honest with me about her infidelity"
If I could tell you one thing
"Be honest and respectful in relationships, or don't have them"
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9/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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