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#RI-6a6b03a6·7 months ago·
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Caught wife emotionally cheating

Caught wife chatting with another man, exchanging flirtatious messages

What I wish I knew
"Why she had these feelings and why she couldn't express them with me"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly and honestly with your partner about desires and boundaries"
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7/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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