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#RI-69f876cc·5 months ago·
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Got emotionally attached to someone in a complicated situation

I got hurt when he blocked me after I tried to slow down our communication, and then he ended our friendship abruptly when I said I didn't have romantic feelings for him

What I wish I knew
"To be more cautious and set clearer boundaries from the start"
If I could tell you one thing
"Be honest with yourself and others about your intentions and feelings"
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Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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