MarriageAbusive Relationship
#RI-6ab74421·5 months ago·
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“Told husband I want a divorce”
What Actually Happened
My husband's response to my divorce request was shocking and controlling, revealing his true nature as an abuser.
What I wish I knew
"I wish I'd seen the red flags sooner and left the marriage before it was too late."
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Be cautious of partners who project their own flaws onto you and refuse to take accountability for their actions."
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Marriage Category
55
Marriage decisions logged. Avg regret 7.4/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
78%
of Marriage decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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