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#RI-6acdad17·7 months ago·
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“Decide whether to bring up partner's porn collection”

Discovered partner's 50k+ porn collection and lack of intimacy

What I wish I knew
"How to have an honest conversation about partner's habits"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly and honestly with your partner about intimacy and boundaries"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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