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#RI-69ba7872·4 months ago·
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Lookback: 5 years of dating

Disagreed on last name for kids

She wants to change her last name, I'm concerned about kids' names

What I wish I knew
"Communicate more about family names before marriage"
If I could tell you one thing
"Discuss and compromise on family names before marriage"
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Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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