relationshipsUnrequited Love
#RI-69a918ad·2 months ago·
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“Developed romantic feelings for straight friend”
What Actually Happened
I've been struggling to control my lust for my straight friend, seeing him shirtless makes it worse
What I wish I knew
"How to deal with unrequited feelings without risking my safety in a red state"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't act on unrequited feelings, it can lead to harm and regret"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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relationships Category
559
relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 6.7/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
57%
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