Lifestylegrowth
#RI-6a6b0d00·9 months ago·
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“swung to defensive, harsh personality”
What Actually Happened
Developed harsh personality after feeling taken advantage of; struggled with friendships as a kid and adult.
What I wish I knew
"I didn't have to become cruel to stand up for myself"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Seek self-reflection and work on finding a healthy middle ground"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Lifestyle Category
2,331
Lifestyle decisions logged. Avg regret 5.3/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
44%
of Lifestyle decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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