relationshipCommunication
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about 1 month ago
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"I apologized and took accountability but my boyfriend says explaining my perspective is defensive"
What Actually Happened
I felt unheard and frustrated when my boyfriend cut me off while I tried to explain my perspective, making me feel like I was being defensive
What I wish I knew
"To have a more open and honest conversation about my perspective without being shut down"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly and honestly with your partner, and try to understand their perspective without feeling defensive"
Regret Score
8/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
relationship Category Average
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