relationalunrequited love
#RI-69ba781e·4 months ago·
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“Declined housemate offer due to feelings”
What Actually Happened
Met Katie in college, had mutual attraction, declined housemate offer due to feelings, now she's back in college and we constantly run into each other
What I wish I knew
"Communicate feelings sooner"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Be honest about your feelings, even if it's scary"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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relational Category
687
relational decisions logged. Avg regret 7.6/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
78%
of relational decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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