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relationshipInfidelity
#RI-69ba7983·4 months ago·
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Deciding whether to expose his infidelity to his new girlfriend

Caught my ex cheating on me with a coworker, but he's still seeing her, and I'm torn between exposing the truth or walking away

What I wish I knew
"That he was cheating on me before our trip and fight"
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't settle for friends with benefits if you're still in love with the person"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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