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#RI-6ad2f47c·5 months ago·
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Lookback: 15 years

“Stay and try to fix it”

Discovered wife's 10-year secret infidelity after 15 years of marriage

What I wish I knew
"Truth about infidelity sooner"
If I could tell you one thing
"Consider seeking couples therapy to address underlying issues"
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9/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
SettledMixedSevere

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Infidelity Category
18
Infidelity decisions logged. Avg regret 8.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
78%
of Infidelity decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.