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DatingGhosting
#RI-6aef1f70·3 months ago·
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Lookback: after the date

“went on a date with someone I thought shared common values”

he lied about valuing communication and honesty, stopped responding after the date

What I wish I knew
"he wasn't genuinely interested"
If I could tell you one thing
"send a quick message if you're not interested"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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