relationshipsDating a friend's family
#RI-69f86788·5 months ago·
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“I went on a date with my best friend's sister-in-law.”
What Actually Happened
I went on a few dates with my best friend's sister-in-law, and even though I was transparent, my friend was very hurt. I ended things with her, but I broke my friend's trust and he now wants nothing to do with me.
What I wish I knew
"I wish I had understood how much my actions would hurt my friend, despite him initially saying it was okay."
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"If a situation feels weird, it probably isn't the right thing to do."
Regret Index
9/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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relationships Category
559
relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 6.7/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
57%
of relationships decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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