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RelationshipSelf-Esteem
#RI-6ad0af51·6 months ago·
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Lookback: 2.5 years into the relationship

“Dating someone who self-identifies as a loser”

His negative self-talk makes me sad and question my judgment

What I wish I knew
"How to help him be kinder to himself"
If I could tell you one thing
"Choose someone with a positive self-image"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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