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personaldifficult ex
#RI-6a7aaaec·3 months ago·
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want to converse with difficult ex

My STBX is incredibly negative and wastes no time calling me nasty when we talk about our children

What I wish I knew
"how to maintain distant civility with a traumatizing ex"
If I could tell you one thing
"set clear boundaries and avoid enabling his behavior"
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Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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