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#RI-6a23ca20·6 months ago·
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I keep contacting my ex despite saying I'll stop

I call him every 2 months when I'm bored, feeling lonely and seeking companionship

What I wish I knew
"I was desperate for human connection"
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't reach out to an ex just to fill a void"
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9/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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