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#RI-69aa8579·3 months ago·
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Lookback: 4 years

Considering taking relationship to next level

Lacklustre lovelife for 3.5 years, sex only for 9 months in last year

What I wish I knew
"Communicate more about intimacy and expectations"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly about intimacy and future plans"
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Significant downsides.
Complicated feelings about the outcome.
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