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personalfinancial instability
#RI-69aa84b7·3 months ago·
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Lookback: 12 years of relationship

Considering breaking up with girlfriend due to financial issues

Girlfriend owes me £5000 and has been in debt for 6 years, causing relationship strain

What I wish I knew
"She was in debt previously and didn't tell me"
If I could tell you one thing
"Prioritize financial stability in a relationship"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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