“checked her location and confronted her”

Item: checked her location and confronted her
Rating: 3
Author: u/Hot_Fly_3963

What Actually Happened

I found out my girlfriend went on a walk with a guy she met at the gym, and she only told me after I confronted her

What I wish I knew

"I wish I knew if she was genuinely interested in this guy"

Advice to Someone Facing This Now

If I could tell you one thing

"Communicate openly and honestly in your relationship"

Regret Index

7/10

Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.

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Relationship Category

370

Relationship decisions logged. Avg regret 7.3/10 across the category.

Same Outcome Band

10%

of Relationship decisions land in the regret band the same as this one.