RelationshipBreakup
#RI-6ad2f303·7 months ago·
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“Compromised my identity for love”
What Actually Happened
My ex asked me to change who I am to keep the relationship, causing a massive identity crisis
What I wish I knew
"Relationships should value who you are, not change you"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Rebuild by rediscovering your passions and values, and being patient with yourself"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationship Category
370
Relationship decisions logged. Avg regret 7.3/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
73%
of Relationship decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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