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#RI-6ae9e4bc·6 months ago·
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Lookback: 7 months after meeting

“Communicate discomfort with mom's boyfriend”

Felt hurt and uncomfortable with mom's boyfriend's comments and mom's defensive reactions

What I wish I knew
"How to express concerns without triggering fights"
If I could tell you one thing
"Be honest and direct when expressing concerns, but prioritize self-care and seek support if needed"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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