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#RI-69aa85da·3 months ago·
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Lookback: 2 years since he proposed

Communicate deadline for proposal

Feeling uncertain and unvalued in 5-year relationship

What I wish I knew
"He's not committed to marriage"
If I could tell you one thing
"Consider setting a clear deadline for proposal to avoid prolonged uncertainty"
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Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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