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InfidelityEmotional Abuse
#RI-6ad98b41·2 months ago·
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Lookback: Past few months

“Trusted my wife despite red flags”

I was cheated on and emotionally abused by my ex-wife after 9 years together

What I wish I knew
"I wish I had known about the affair sooner"
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't ignore your intuition and investigate any suspicions"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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Infidelity Category
18
Infidelity decisions logged. Avg regret 8.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
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of Infidelity decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.