RelationshipUnhealthy Partner
#RI-6af29710·3 months ago·
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“Stay in relationship to help partner”
What Actually Happened
Partner's unhealthy habits and lack of motivation have made me feel like his mother, reducing physical attraction and making me question our future.
What I wish I knew
"His willingness to change and improve his habits before we started dating."
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Evaluate whether your partner's issues are a sign of deeper problems or a phase, and consider your own needs and boundaries in the relationship."
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationship Category
370
Relationship decisions logged. Avg regret 7.3/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
73%
of Relationship decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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