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#RI-69a9134a·2 months ago·
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Lookback: 4 years together

Choose between moving to his country or breaking up

I'm torn between moving to his country and risking my freedom or breaking up and potentially never finding love again

What I wish I knew
"There must be a compromise"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly and explore all options before making a decision"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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