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relationalinfidelity
#RI-6ace33a2·2 months ago·
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Lookback: 8 years

“left husband after years of cheating”

Caught husband cheating online and in person multiple times, including during pregnancy.

What I wish I knew
"He was capable of such deep manipulation and cruelty."
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't underestimate the extent of someone's deception, and prioritize self-healing after a betrayal."
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10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
SettledMixedSevere

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relational Category
129
relational decisions logged. Avg regret 7.7/10 across the category.
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