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#RI-69f873ac·5 months ago·
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Lookback: 6 months after discovery

divorce decision after infidelity

My wife cheated on me with a coworker after we had a child together and were trying to rebuild our relationship

What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew she was already over me and had moved on before we even started trying to work things out"
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't ignore red flags and trust your instincts"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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