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#RI-6ae80b50·3 months ago·
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“Forgave her after cheating”

Girlfriend cheated, lied, and had unprotected sex with another man. I forgave her, but still struggle to understand why.

What I wish I knew
"To not forgive her so quickly"
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't forgive too easily after infidelity"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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