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relationalinfidelity
#RI-6aa77438·about 2 months ago·
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Lookback: 14 years together

ended things due to infidelity

He cheated on me after rehab and his mom's death

What I wish I knew
"he was struggling with shame and loyalty issues"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly and address underlying issues before acting on emotions"
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10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
SettledMixedSevere

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relational decisions logged. Avg regret 7.6/10 across the category.
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