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#RI-6a7aa9af·5 months ago·
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Lookback: 1 year into the relationship

Checked boyfriend's messages without permission

Discovered intimate conversations between boyfriend and former classmate

What I wish I knew
"To communicate openly about boundaries"
If I could tell you one thing
"Be honest about your feelings and concerns"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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