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#RI-69a910f5·2 months ago·
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Lookback: 2 years of dating

Broke up with boyfriend due to unsettling behavior and following random women on Instagram

He followed his ex on Instagram, texted her flirtatiously, and followed multiple female influencers, causing me to feel insecure and heartbroken

What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew he was this toxic before I got into the relationship"
If I could tell you one thing
"Be cautious of red flags and don't ignore your intuition"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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