What Actually Happened
I realized my boyfriend was too immature and I was mothering him, so I tried to break up with him. I feel intense guilt for hurting him, even though I know it's the right decision for my future.
What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew how much I would have to mother him and push him to care about his own life."
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't get into a relationship where you have to drag your partner along to build a future."
Regret Score
7/10
Significant downsides.
Complicated feelings about the outcome.
Complicated feelings about the outcome.
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Impact
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