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#RI-69f86844·5 months ago·
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“Tried to break up with my boyfriend.”
What Actually Happened
I realized my boyfriend was too immature and I was mothering him, so I tried to break up with him. I feel intense guilt for hurting him, even though I know it's the right decision for my future.
What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew how much I would have to mother him and push him to care about his own life."
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't get into a relationship where you have to drag your partner along to build a future."
Regret Index
7/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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relationships Category
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Same Outcome Band
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