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relationalbreakup
#RI-69a91726·2 months ago·
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Breaking up with boyfriend of 4 years

I feel lost and confused after 4 years of dating, but I know I need to end the relationship due to lack of respect and support

What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew how to communicate my needs and boundaries effectively"
If I could tell you one thing
"Consider seeking couples therapy before making a permanent decision"
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6/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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