RelationshipFinancial
#RI-6aebff62·3 months ago·
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“Boyfriend sends me money”
What Actually Happened
My boyfriend, who makes almost twice as much as I do, sends me money when I'm struggling financially. He's been doing this for 9 months, and I've been trying to save money, but his generosity makes me question his motives.
What I wish I knew
"Maybe I should just accept his kindness without overthinking it."
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't overanalyze your partner's generosity; it's possible they genuinely care about you."
Regret Index
2/10
Positive or neutral outcome.
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Relationship Category
370
Relationship decisions logged. Avg regret 7.3/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
12%
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