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Boyfriend found condoms in trash, assumed infidelity

Boyfriend didn't believe I used condoms on sex toys, accused me of cheating

What I wish I knew
"Communicate openly about sex and boundaries"
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't jump to conclusions, listen to your partner's explanation"
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Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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