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RelationshipBoundary Issues
#RI-6ac32148·5 months ago·
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“asked to break up over his extreme reaction”

boyfriend asked if I enjoyed being raped, disregarded my boundaries multiple times

What I wish I knew
"held strong and didn't give him another chance"
If I could tell you one thing
"set clear boundaries and don't tolerate disrespect"
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9/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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