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#RI-6acc5b56·5 months ago·
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Lookback: 3 weeks into the relationship

“Being honest about texting habits from the start”

My girlfriend punished me for being who I said I was, expecting me to change my nature

What I wish I knew
"She would respect my boundaries and not try to change me"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate your boundaries clearly and expect them to be respected"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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