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roommateboundary issues
#RI-6ae17390·6 months ago·
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Lookback: 3 years of living together

“asked roommate for partner to stay over”

roommate threatened to move out due to partner's occasional visits

What I wish I knew
"clear boundaries and expectations before asking for favors"
If I could tell you one thing
"set clear expectations and communicate openly with your roommate"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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