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#RI-6a23c88a·6 months ago·
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Lookback: 3 years of relationship

I'm considering breaking up with my girlfriend

My girlfriend told me she's asexual and I feel disconnected from her

What I wish I knew
"I wish I understood her asexuality better before"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly with your partner about intimacy issues"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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relational Category
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relational decisions logged. Avg regret 7.6/10 across the category.
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