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#RI-6ab8952d·3 months ago·
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“I apologized repeatedly in a triggered state”
What Actually Happened
Girlfriend cursed at me after I apologized for triggering her
What I wish I knew
"Her behavior was gaslighting and manipulative"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly, set clear boundaries, and prioritize self-care"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationship Category
370
Relationship decisions logged. Avg regret 7.3/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
73%
of Relationship decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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