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@u/UniversityNearby8158about 2 months ago
workplaceCoworker Boundaries
"Found coworker's private photos online"
I discovered my coworker's intimate photos on a forbidden subreddit, leaving me uncomfortable and questioning my workplace trust
What I wish I knew
"I wish I had never stumbled upon that subreddit"
Advice

"Be cautious of online communities and respect others' privacy"

8/10 regret
0
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@u/rsimmondsabout 2 months ago
workplaceTeam Management
"Address the issue privately"
I started addressing the issue privately to avoid embarrassment
What I wish I knew
"Communicate openly and earlier"
Advice

"Don't ignore the issue, address it with empathy"

2/10 regret
0
Author
@u/Dynastehabout 2 months ago
workplaceManager let go
"Refusing to 'bend the knee'"
Manager was let go, being treated weirdly
What I wish I knew
"Manager's departure was planned"
Advice

"Be cautious of workplace dynamics"

6/10 regret
0
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@u/sillychilllyabout 2 months ago
workplaceUnionization
"Employers spend millions on union avoidance"
I feel like this is unfair to workers
What I wish I knew
"Union avoidance is a real thing"
Advice

"Research the costs of union avoidance"

10/10 regret
0
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@u/Catwhisperer2007about 2 months ago
workplacePoor Management
"Young people in charge at work"
Boss retired, left inexperienced staff in charge; chaos ensued
What I wish I knew
"Hire more experienced staff"
Advice

"Don't be afraid to speak up about poor management"

8/10 regret
0
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@u/Tremblingchihuahua82 months ago
workplacedifficult manager
"Give feedback to manager"
Manager is overemotional and mean to colleagues
What I wish I knew
"Polite ways to give feedback without consequences"
Advice

"Be honest but tactful when giving feedback"

6/10 regret
0
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@u/Intrepid-Ad-10102 months ago
workplaceManagerial Favoritism
"Allowing boss to set own schedule while enforcing strict rules on others"
Boss's inconsistent work hours and favoritism create a toxic work environment
What I wish I knew
"I should have spoken up sooner about the unfair treatment"
Advice

"Don't let favoritism go unchecked in the workplace"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u/deanzino2 months ago
workplacecoworker issues
"Continuing to fix recurring issues"
I've been repeatedly fixing issues tied to my coworker's work, causing frustration and impacting team collaboration
What I wish I knew
"To address the issue more directly and assertively"
Advice

"Communicate clearly and assertively, while also documenting issues and seeking support from management"

6/10 regret
0
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@u/Hagisman2 months ago
workplaceLearned Helplessness
"Feeling helpless at work"
I felt trapped in a job with no real promotions or pay increases, despite being told I was 'valued'
What I wish I knew
"To be honest with myself about the company's intentions"
Advice

"Don't settle for empty promises or titles without real benefits"

8/10 regret
0
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@u/Muted-Mood40572 months ago
workplacecustomer interactions
"Got pressured into helping with non-work tasks"
Helped customers with non-work tasks, felt underappreciated
What I wish I knew
"Set clear boundaries with customers"
Advice

"Don't let guilt dictate your work decisions"

2/10 regret
0
Author
@u/Booya19832 months ago
workplaceToxic work environment
"Owner turned anonymous survey into public loyalty test"
I was pressured to change my honest opinion to avoid conflict
What I wish I knew
"Don't underestimate the owner's control tactics"
Advice

"Be cautious of forced surveys and anonymous feedback"

8/10 regret
0
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@u/Less_Mistake23042 months ago
workplaceManagerial Overload
"Told to act happier in meeting"
Bosses knew I was burnt out, then reprimanded me for not being excited about more work
What I wish I knew
"Asking questions isn't a bad thing"
Advice

"Don't be afraid to speak up about workload"

8/10 regret
0
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@u/Accomplished-Area8762 months ago
workplaceUnderstaffing
"Never stay at an understaffed job"
I'm exhausted and burnt out from overwork
What I wish I knew
"Hire new staff before overworking current ones"
Advice

"Don't make the same mistake, leave early"

10/10 regret
0
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@u/Fast_Hearse_17212 months ago
workplacePoor working conditions
"chose to work at small farm despite concerns"
got fired after complaining about work conditions
What I wish I knew
"more about the farm's labor practices before taking the job"
Advice

"research the company thoroughly before working there"

8/10 regret
0
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@u/CherryHavoc2 months ago
workplaceGoal Setting
"Set mandatory personal goals for workplace benefit"
Felt pressured to take on extra work, leading to burnout
What I wish I knew
"Manager's expectations were unrealistic"
Advice

"Communicate concerns with management early on"

8/10 regret
0
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@u/lilant7022 months ago
workplaceManagerial behavior
"Refused doctor's note request"
Manager disregarded illness, demanded doctor's note
What I wish I knew
"Manager's priorities"
Advice

"Don't compromise health for work"

8/10 regret
0
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@u/Sorry-Raspberry-80493 months ago
workplaceunprofessional behavior
"to stick it out"
I was unfairly reprimanded by my manager for a mistake a coworker made
What I wish I knew
"the workplace culture was toxic before taking the job"
Advice

"consider the workplace culture before accepting a job"

8/10 regret
0
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@u/kryptokoinkrisp3 months ago
workplaceoffice politics
"Revised a joke for modern America"
My joke about office politics ended up biting me back
What I wish I knew
"To be more careful with my words"
Advice

"Think before you speak, especially about sensitive topics"

8/10 regret
0
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@u/Ok-Cow-18853 months ago
workplaceRetail Job
"Tried to take a leave for health reasons"
Returning to work after 2 months felt overwhelming and stressful
What I wish I knew
"How to better manage work and health expectations"
Advice

"Don't be afraid to prioritize your health and seek help"

8/10 regret
0
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@u/Shhh_wasting_time3 months ago
workplaceOffice Space
"Moved break room to parking garage"
I'm miserable with the new break room location
What I wish I knew
"The impact on employee morale"
Advice

"Consider employee feedback before making changes"

10/10 regret
0