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@u/Tremblingchihuahua814 days ago
workplacedifficult manager
"Give feedback to manager"
Manager is overemotional and mean to colleagues
What I wish I knew
"Polite ways to give feedback without consequences"
Advice

"Be honest but tactful when giving feedback"

6/10 regret
0
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@u/deanzino14 days ago
workplacecoworker issues
"Continuing to fix recurring issues"
I've been repeatedly fixing issues tied to my coworker's work, causing frustration and impacting team collaboration
What I wish I knew
"To address the issue more directly and assertively"
Advice

"Communicate clearly and assertively, while also documenting issues and seeking support from management"

6/10 regret
0
Author
@u/Muted-Mood405714 days ago
workplacecustomer interactions
"Got pressured into helping with non-work tasks"
Helped customers with non-work tasks, felt underappreciated
What I wish I knew
"Set clear boundaries with customers"
Advice

"Don't let guilt dictate your work decisions"

2/10 regret
0
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@u/Sorry-Raspberry-8049about 1 month ago
workplaceunprofessional behavior
"to stick it out"
I was unfairly reprimanded by my manager for a mistake a coworker made
What I wish I knew
"the workplace culture was toxic before taking the job"
Advice

"consider the workplace culture before accepting a job"

8/10 regret
0
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@u/kryptokoinkrispabout 1 month ago
workplaceoffice politics
"Revised a joke for modern America"
My joke about office politics ended up biting me back
What I wish I knew
"To be more careful with my words"
Advice

"Think before you speak, especially about sensitive topics"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u/Civil_Fee_7862about 1 month ago
workplaceculture
"laughing at work was not encouraged"
I was almost reprimanded for laughing at work, multiple times
What I wish I knew
"leadership was weak and predatory"
Advice

"don't speak up if you want to keep your job"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u/tookaiiiabout 1 month ago
workplacecoworker animosity
"worked hard to show enthusiasm"
coworkers resent my eagerness to learn and work hard
What I wish I knew
"be more aware of coworkers' feelings"
Advice

"don't let others' negativity bring you down"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u/Realestever12345about 2 months ago
workplacePerformance Improvement Plan (PIP)
"Spoke up against management's dirty practices"
Management targeted me after I spoke up, put me on PIP, and asked for overwork
What I wish I knew
"Management's intentions and consequences of speaking up"
Advice

"Document everything and be prepared for retaliation"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u/Little-Shoe7504about 2 months ago
workplaceErgonomics
"Switching to standing desk stations"
Standing for hours is causing back pain and discomfort
What I wish I knew
"Benefits of ergonomic seating were considered before implementation"
Advice

"Consider employee feedback before making major changes"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u/-Norsko-TheScorpionabout 2 months ago
workplaceManager
"Prioritizing work over family"
My boss's marriages failed due to his work obsession
What I wish I knew
"To balance work and relationships"
Advice

"Don't sacrifice relationships for career"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u/firebolt286about 2 months ago
workplaceResignation not accepted
"Cannot initiate resignation on company system"
Manager not accepting resignation, increased workload
What I wish I knew
"Company process for resignation initiation"
Advice

"Document everything and follow up with HR"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u/DabZonTwitch2 months ago
workplaceEmployee Benefits
"Free parking after 40 years, $1040 pay increase"
Got free parking after 40 years, $1040 pay increase, manager joked about no increase
What I wish I knew
"Benefits were a joke"
Advice

"Don't expect meaningful benefits"

10/10 regret
0
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@u/Jsuisdanslesmurs2 months ago
workplaceBiometric Scanning
"Implementing biometric scanning for small business"
I think it's overkill for our small business
What I wish I knew
"Consent forms should be given before implementing"
Advice

"Consider the size of the business before implementing biometrics"

2/10 regret
0
Author
@u/lieutenantdannewlegs2 months ago
workplaceunfair labor practices
"I report my boss's behavior"
My boss has another employee log her into the register while she's not at work. It seems wrong and dishonest to me.
What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew the extent of the problem before speaking up"
Advice

"If you suspect unfair labor practices, speak up and report it to someone higher up"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u/Basic_Set_69702 months ago
workplaceCoworker Conflict
"Tolerating aggressive coworker"
I've been dealing with her behavior for a while, it's affecting my well-being
What I wish I knew
"How to effectively address the issue with my manager"
Advice

"Consider a new job if the situation doesn't improve"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u/Happy_Sea31803 months ago
workplaceCoworker Behavior
"Correcting coworker's micromanaging"
My coworker keeps fixing my work in front of me, making me feel belittled and untrusted
What I wish I knew
"To communicate my feelings and set boundaries with my coworker"
Advice

"Speak up and address the issue directly with your coworker or supervisor"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u/GothicMeow3 months ago
workplacePTO requests
"I use my PTO hours as needed"
My GM is mad at me for taking PTO days
What I wish I knew
"PTO policies are strict"
Advice

"Use PTO before it expires"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u/Codie_n253 months ago
workplaceManager-Employee Relationship
"Stop idealizing workplace relationships"
I idealized my manager's words, thinking we were a team, but they could fire me at any time
What I wish I knew
"My manager's words were just a power play"
Advice

"Treat workplace relationships as transactions, not personal connections"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u/Expensive_Purchase_73 months ago
workplaceAI in Management
"Companies are using AI to manage employees"
I'm concerned about the lack of human interaction in the workplace
What I wish I knew
"More about the impact of AI on human relationships"
Advice

"Be cautious of relying too heavily on AI in management"

6/10 regret
0
Author
@u/Old-Highlight-30073 months ago
workplaceConflict with Manager
"Snapped at my boss"
I snapped at my boss after she asked if I was okay for the third time, not realizing my tone was rude.
What I wish I knew
"Being more mindful of my tone and responses to avoid conflicts."
Advice

"Communicate openly and respectfully with your manager and colleagues to avoid misunderstandings."

8/10 regret
0