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@u/Intelligent_Site_5882 days ago
personal growthMidlife Crisis
"Wanted to escape 9 to 5 life"
Spent years in unfulfilling job, missed relationships
What I wish I knew
"Prioritized self growth earlier"
Advice

"Take control of your life, don't wait"

8/10 regret
0
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@u/Akagame_shanks_9 days ago
personal growthRegret and Advice
"Reflecting on past mistakes at 19"
I wasted time on non-essential things, missed opportunities for growth
What I wish I knew
"I should have focused on learning and self-improvement"
Advice

"Don't wait, take action and learn from others' mistakes"

8/10 regret
0
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@u/softly_petal13 days ago
personal growthSelf-Worth
"Tied self-worth to productivity"
Felt worthless without constant achievements
What I wish I knew
"Self-worth isn't tied to productivity"
Advice

"Practice self-compassion and anchor self-esteem in intrinsic values"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u_Unique_Reputation56821 days ago
personal growthOvercoming Procrastination
"stopped waiting for perfect time"
realized happiness isn't a luxury to earn, started pottery class and walking in park
What I wish I knew
"happiness isn't something to wait for"
Advice

"try taking small steps towards joy"

1/10 regret
0
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@u_mellymac12321 days ago
personal growthMidlife Crisis
"put myself out there at 48"
Fear of hitting midlife wall, feeling desperate
What I wish I knew
"Timing and readiness for change"
Advice

"Don't rush into things"

6/10 regret
0
Author
@u_albertpaca1122 days ago
personal growthHabits
"Establish daily rituals"
I used to be in vicious cycles, but today I feel more steady
What I wish I knew
"Setting achievable daily goals is key"
Advice

"Create non-optional, daily rituals like brushing teeth"

2/10 regret
0
Author
@u_Sufficient-Year464023 days ago
personal growthNavigating Ambiguity
"Commented on a post, hesitated to escalate"
Struggled with unclear ownership and senior stakeholder alignment
What I wish I knew
"Communicate more assertively from the start"
Advice

"Prepare for ambiguity and don't be afraid to ask for help"

2/10 regret
0
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@u_Greedy-Addition680424 days ago
personal growthSelf-awareness
"Seeking advice on empathy"
I struggle with feeling empathy, always putting my own needs first
What I wish I knew
"How to genuinely care for others"
Advice

"Be honest with yourself about your flaws and seek help"

10/10 regret
0
Author
@u_Spiritual-Square-76625 days ago
personal growthAnxiety
"Tried to control future fears"
I've been having panic attacks and vomiting almost daily due to constant future worries
What I wish I knew
"I wish I'd learned to accept uncertainty sooner"
Advice

"Practice mindfulness to calm future fears"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u_Slow-One195328 days ago
personal growthSelf-Doubt
"Struggling with self-perception"
My grades plummeted and I feel stupid
What I wish I knew
"How to maintain motivation"
Advice

"Seek help and practice self-compassion"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u_strong_dazzling_me30 days ago
personal growthSelf-Discovery
"Choosing a solitary lifestyle"
My parents and friends keep nagging me to be more social and 'normal'. I feel frustrated and pressured to change who I am.
What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew how to handle people's opinions and expectations without feeling so down."
Advice

"Don't be afraid to be yourself, even if that means being different from others."

6/10 regret
0
Author
@u_letmequestionyouthisabout 1 month ago
personal growthSelf Acceptance
"Identified root cause of troubles"
Discovered deep-rooted self-hatred in therapy
What I wish I knew
"How to address self-hatred effectively"
Advice

"Seek professional help for self-acceptance"

6/10 regret
0
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@u_Both_Classroom1151about 1 month ago
personal growthSelf-Improvement
"Start gym routine to boost confidence"
I've become stronger but not physically changed yet
What I wish I knew
"Patience is key, physical changes take time"
Advice

"Focus on inner strength, not just physical appearance"

2/10 regret
0
Author
@u_starbeamwandererabout 1 month ago
personal growthSelf-Worth
"Tying self-worth to achievements"
Growing up in a family that equated hard work with recognition led to a lifelong issue with self-worth tied to achievements
What I wish I knew
"My worth isn't defined by achievements alone"
Advice

"Recognize and challenge the link between self-worth and achievements"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u_marchtwentytwo1995about 1 month ago
personal growthOvercoming Ego
"learn despite condescending tone"
Defended myself against condescending tone, felt disrespected, lost confidence
What I wish I knew
"Recognize condescending tone sooner, stand up for myself"
Advice

"Don't let condescending tone undermine your self-confidence"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u_darkkitty-about 1 month ago
personal growthSelf-Discovery
"Embracing my impatient and uncaring side"
Dating with high standards and blocking people who don't meet them
What I wish I knew
"Being assertive doesn't have to mean being mean"
Advice

"Don't be afraid to set boundaries and prioritize yourself"

2/10 regret
0
Author
@u_SoPheonaHabout 1 month ago
personal growthOvercoming Procrastination
"stopped avoiding tasks I dislike"
I created a goal to do tasks I dislike and cleared my backlog of small tasks, feeling more in control of my life
What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew that procrastination was fueled by my dislike of inconvenience"
Advice

"Don't make mountains out of molehills and take control of your life by doing tasks you dislike"

1/10 regret
0
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@u_Clean_Public3245about 1 month ago
personal growthDevOps Learning
"Reading DevOps books for faster growth"
Reading books helped grasp concepts faster
What I wish I knew
"Started reading sooner"
Advice

"Combine practice with book learning"

4/10 regret
0
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@u_Timely_Bunch_8607about 1 month ago
personal growthSelf-Acceptance
"let go of perfectionism"
I've learned to find happiness in the smallest things
What I wish I knew
"being true to myself is key"
Advice

"be kind to others, even when hurting"

1/10 regret
0
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@u_Appropriate-Fix-8222about 1 month ago
personal growthSelf-Discovery
"Challenged self-labeling as lazy"
Realized I was overstimulated and overwhelmed
What I wish I knew
"Rest isn't laziness"
Advice

"Prioritize recovery over discipline"

5/10 regret
0