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@u/Tinkerbell_5about 2 months ago
personal growthSelf Improvement
"Work on internal validation"
Tried to share wins with others, got generic responses
What I wish I knew
"Self validation is key to happiness"
Advice

"Celebrate your wins internally"

2/10 regret
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@u/Bovice942about 2 months ago
personal growthOvercoming Addiction
"Put the bottle back in the fridge"
I overcame a strong craving to drink after years of daily consumption
What I wish I knew
"I had the strength to resist cravings sooner"
Advice

"Resist cravings and take care of yourself"

1/10 regret
0
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@u/Kantramoabout 2 months ago
personal growthRegret of Routine
"Realized I was existing, not living"
Months of my life gone, no memorable days
What I wish I knew
"To choose my days, not just follow routine"
Advice

"Stop autopilot, take risks, and choose what matters"

8/10 regret
0
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@u/DadOfMissingDaughterabout 2 months ago
personal growthOvercoming Addiction
"stopped drinking"
Stopped drinking, persevered through custody fight
What I wish I knew
"Hitting rock bottom was a blessing in disguise"
Advice

"Stay sober, it's worth it"

1/10 regret
0
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@u/bunny_lxveabout 2 months ago
personal growthSelf-Control
"Can't control gossiping in the moment"
Gossiping hurts my partner and family, causing instant regret
What I wish I knew
"Why I engage in gossiping despite knowing the harm"
Advice

"Practice self-awareness and set boundaries to stop gossiping"

8/10 regret
0
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@u/nothingspecial-_about 2 months ago
personal growthOvercoming Addiction
"Trying to overcome man child phase"
I'm addicted to video games, doomscrolling, and phonk music. I escape responsibility and lie to my parents.
What I wish I knew
"How to control my life and take action."
Advice

"Seek help and take small steps towards change."

8/10 regret
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@u/Jstacey21543 months ago
personal growthAccountability
"I admit my wrongs without fear"
I've faced criticism but learned from it
What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew how to handle criticism"
Advice

"Take responsibility for your actions"

2/10 regret
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@u/Intelligent_Site_5885 months ago
personal growthMidlife Crisis
"Wanted to escape 9 to 5 life"
Spent years in unfulfilling job, missed relationships
What I wish I knew
"Prioritized self growth earlier"
Advice

"Take control of your life, don't wait"

8/10 regret
0
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@u/Akagame_shanks_5 months ago
personal growthRegret and Advice
"Reflecting on past mistakes at 19"
I wasted time on non-essential things, missed opportunities for growth
What I wish I knew
"I should have focused on learning and self-improvement"
Advice

"Don't wait, take action and learn from others' mistakes"

8/10 regret
0
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@u/softly_petal8 months ago
personal growthSelf-Worth
"Tied self-worth to productivity"
Felt worthless without constant achievements
What I wish I knew
"Self-worth isn't tied to productivity"
Advice

"Practice self-compassion and anchor self-esteem in intrinsic values"

8/10 regret
0
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@u_Unique_Reputation5689 months ago
personal growthOvercoming Procrastination
"stopped waiting for perfect time"
realized happiness isn't a luxury to earn, started pottery class and walking in park
What I wish I knew
"happiness isn't something to wait for"
Advice

"try taking small steps towards joy"

1/10 regret
0
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@u_mellymac1239 months ago
personal growthMidlife Crisis
"put myself out there at 48"
Fear of hitting midlife wall, feeling desperate
What I wish I knew
"Timing and readiness for change"
Advice

"Don't rush into things"

6/10 regret
0
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@u_albertpaca1110 months ago
personal growthHabits
"Establish daily rituals"
I used to be in vicious cycles, but today I feel more steady
What I wish I knew
"Setting achievable daily goals is key"
Advice

"Create non-optional, daily rituals like brushing teeth"

2/10 regret
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@u_Sufficient-Year464010 months ago
personal growthNavigating Ambiguity
"Commented on a post, hesitated to escalate"
Struggled with unclear ownership and senior stakeholder alignment
What I wish I knew
"Communicate more assertively from the start"
Advice

"Prepare for ambiguity and don't be afraid to ask for help"

2/10 regret
0
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@u_Greedy-Addition680411 months ago
personal growthSelf-awareness
"Seeking advice on empathy"
I struggle with feeling empathy, always putting my own needs first
What I wish I knew
"How to genuinely care for others"
Advice

"Be honest with yourself about your flaws and seek help"

10/10 regret
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@u_Spiritual-Square-76611 months ago
personal growthAnxiety
"Tried to control future fears"
I've been having panic attacks and vomiting almost daily due to constant future worries
What I wish I knew
"I wish I'd learned to accept uncertainty sooner"
Advice

"Practice mindfulness to calm future fears"

8/10 regret
0
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@u_Slow-One195312 months ago
personal growthSelf-Doubt
"Struggling with self-perception"
My grades plummeted and I feel stupid
What I wish I knew
"How to maintain motivation"
Advice

"Seek help and practice self-compassion"

8/10 regret
0
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@u_strong_dazzling_meabout 1 year ago
personal growthSelf-Discovery
"Choosing a solitary lifestyle"
My parents and friends keep nagging me to be more social and 'normal'. I feel frustrated and pressured to change who I am.
What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew how to handle people's opinions and expectations without feeling so down."
Advice

"Don't be afraid to be yourself, even if that means being different from others."

6/10 regret
0
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@u_letmequestionyouthisabout 1 year ago
personal growthSelf Acceptance
"Identified root cause of troubles"
Discovered deep-rooted self-hatred in therapy
What I wish I knew
"How to address self-hatred effectively"
Advice

"Seek professional help for self-acceptance"

6/10 regret
0
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@u_Both_Classroom1151about 1 year ago
personal growthSelf-Improvement
"Start gym routine to boost confidence"
I've become stronger but not physically changed yet
What I wish I knew
"Patience is key, physical changes take time"
Advice

"Focus on inner strength, not just physical appearance"

2/10 regret
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