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@u/Status-Departure-11210 days ago · yesterday after
10/10
Severe

Hug loved ones more often

BIL had heart attack, left 6 month old child

What I wish I knew
Time is limited, cherish moments
PersonalLife
@u/gruntledCyclops17 days ago · 1 week after
6/10
Regret

decide whether to give feedback

had a confusing and hurtful conversation with a fellow performer

What I wish I knew
how to assert myself in a conversation
PersonalCommunication
@u/seeker1375b19 days ago · life after
1/10
Settled

judge others less

choose empathy over judgment

What I wish I knew
empathy is key
PersonalUnconditional Love
@u/frnkmnst21 days ago · tonight after
1/10
Settled

staying sober during Dry November

resisted tequila with roommates

What I wish I knew
how to silence the voice in my head
PersonalSobriety
@u/Interesting-Kiwi5873about 1 month ago · 1 year after
1/10
Settled

quit drinking after 30 years

I was a binge drinker for 30 years, but I got through it with a new routine and mindset

What I wish I knew
nothing
PersonalSobriety
@u/Own_Creme8435about 1 month ago · 4 months after
10/10
Severe

moved for boyfriend

Boyfriend dislikes my nation, family religion, and language level

What I wish I knew
he had these issues before I moved
PersonalRelationship
@u/adiraisme17about 1 month ago · 8 months after
2/10
Settled

learn to set boundaries

I was taken advantage of in my first relationship

What I wish I knew
boundaries are key to a healthy relationship
PersonalBreakup
@u/EleavtorMusic28about 2 months ago · 1 year after
1/10
Settled

stopped drinking at games

I used to drink secretly at baseball games

What I wish I knew
I was drinking too much
PersonalSobriety
@u/Fine_Marsupial_3523about 2 months ago · 2 days after
8/10
Regret

voluntarily entered treatment facility

Husband expressed suicidal thoughts, went to treatment facility

What I wish I knew
how to cope with guilt
PersonalSuicidal Thoughts
@u/Southern_Saturnabout 2 months ago · 6 weeks after birth after
1/10
Settled

chose to become a mother

Received a perspective-changing comment from an elderly lady

What I wish I knew
nothing, I'm at peace
PersonalPostpartum
@u/itsRoly4266about 2 months ago · 1 year after
8/10
Regret

ventured out of comfort zone

felt anxious and uncomfortable in crowded restaurant

What I wish I knew
how to handle large crowds with anxiety
PersonalAnxiety
@u/Great_Cheesecake3288about 2 months ago · 1 year after
2/10
Settled

letting go was the right decision

missed conversations and moments, but chose a different life

What I wish I knew
how to heal sooner
PersonalHealing
@u/_PaulMabout 2 months ago · 1 year after
10/10
Severe

Calling me 'baby' triggers childhood feelings

Calling me 'baby' makes me feel weak and childish

What I wish I knew
Why do they call me 'baby' and how to respond
PersonalSocial Dynamics
@u/Emergency-Song6855about 2 months ago · 3 months after
10/10
Severe

began drinking again after year sober

ended up in Thai jail for public drunken nuisance and damage

What I wish I knew
moderation doesn't work for me
PersonalAddiction
@u/SeaDragonfruit945about 2 months ago · 1 year after
8/10
Regret

stop sexist thoughts

Holding sexist expectations towards women

What I wish I knew
sexism exists in many forms
PersonalSelf-Awareness
@u/Anonymous-Functionabout 2 months ago · end of year after
8/10
Regret

cutting off dead weight friends

I'm tired of being ignored and left on read by friends

What I wish I knew
how to set boundaries sooner
PersonalFriendships
@u/powerrangercaptain2 months ago · a few weeks after
8/10
Regret

reported bully's parents to ICE

I reported bully's parents to ICE anonymously after they overstayed visa and bullied me

What I wish I knew
researching immigration laws before taking action
PersonalBullying
@u/Difficult_Refuse89992 months ago · 3 days after
6/10
Regret

returned home for a change of mind

felt homesick being with family, more connected through VC

What I wish I knew
being away from family can cause unexpected feelings
PersonalHomesickness
@u/Aggressive_Cut_27152 months ago · 1 year after
1/10
Settled

built an app for Indian tuition teachers

Spent almost a year building the app, now 3 people are paying for it

What I wish I knew
Not much, just to be patient
PersonalCareer
@u/xoxooz2 months ago · 4 years after
10/10
Severe

Started drinking in college

Lost friendships, relationships, and self-control to addiction

What I wish I knew
Genetics may play a role
PersonalAddiction