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@u/unicornkeeper3314 days ago
personalemployment
"grateful for employment after months of unemployment"
appreciating simple things after tough times
What I wish I knew
"nothing"
Advice

"appreciate what you have"

1/10 regret
0
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@u/RedBirdOnASnowyDay14 days ago
personalwork
"Avoid Instawork App due to privacy concerns"
I was forced to do AI phone interviews for every position, even simple jobs, and was removed from potential shifts for no reason
What I wish I knew
"I wish I had known about the app's data mining and AI phone interview requirements before signing up"
Advice

"Use a different app for work, Instawork is a huge red flag"

10/10 regret
0
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@u/Sarcastic_-_Confetti15 days ago
personalfinancial
"Wealth doesn't trickle down"
I'm losing wealth to ripoffs
What I wish I knew
"I should invest wisely"
Advice

"Be cautious of corporate greed"

9/10 regret
0
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@u/Bumblebee-Enough30 days ago
personalmarriage
"Marriage with red flags"
He calls me names when angry, rarely admits fault, and has been physically threatening
What I wish I knew
"Red flags should be addressed before marriage"
Advice

"Don't ignore disrespect and emotional abuse"

8/10 regret
0
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@u/Fluffy_Milk9843about 1 month ago
personalinfidelity
"Seduced an engaged friend"
Cheated on multiple partners, including friends' dads
What I wish I knew
"Self-control over desires"
Advice

"Resist temptation, prioritize relationships"

10/10 regret
0
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@u/Flat-Expression6239about 1 month ago
personaltrust
"Dumped her after she made a devastating joke about my stepdad"
She made a joke about sleeping with my stepdad, which felt like a betrayal of my trust
What I wish I knew
"I wish I had known she had such a dark sense of humor"
Advice

"Be honest about your feelings and boundaries, even if it's hard"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u/Federal_Money_1652about 1 month ago
personalheartbreak
"ended relationship due to rough times"
ex-girlfriend replaced me with another guy, broke my heart
What I wish I knew
"she wasn't committed to me"
Advice

"don't give up everything to someone who doesn't love you back"

10/10 regret
0
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@u/LetOk8529about 1 month ago
personalrelationship
"tolerate wife's behavior"
Wife called me names, complained about proposal, and brought up past
What I wish I knew
"how to communicate effectively"
Advice

"set boundaries in relationships"

6/10 regret
0
Author
@u/Wise_Initial_1847about 1 month ago
personalunrequited love
"Fell for a taken girl"
Fell deeply in love with a girl in a long-term relationship, lost empathy and became colder
What I wish I knew
"Not to fall for someone already in a relationship"
Advice

"Don't sacrifice your values for love"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u/DangerThrowerrabout 1 month ago
personalavoiding attachment
"struggling to connect with people after military service"
I struggle to connect with people due to fear of loss after military service
What I wish I knew
"how to overcome my fear of loss and attachment"
Advice

"be honest about your fears and boundaries when forming relationships"

5/10 regret
0
Author
@u/No_Amphibian_7456about 1 month ago
personalself-love
"chose self over waiting for others"
ended unhealthy waiting patterns
What I wish I knew
"self-worth not tied to others' choices"
Advice

"choose yourself when others leave you waiting"

1/10 regret
0
Author
@u/throwaway11232247384about 1 month ago
personalunrequited love
"Tried to ignore feelings, then confessed love"
Developed strong romantic feelings for close friend, she rejected me twice
What I wish I knew
"Her feelings were genuine, but she wasn't ready for a relationship"
Advice

"Be honest with yourself and the other person, and respect their boundaries"

8/10 regret
0
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@u/blueberries207about 1 month ago
personalmarriage/relationship
"Ending a troubled marriage"
My stbxh has been emotionally abusive and made false accusations about my past, causing me to feel guilty and ashamed. I'm relieved to be starting the divorce process and finally taking control of my life.
What I wish I knew
"I wish I'd recognized the signs of emotional abuse sooner and taken action sooner."
Advice

"Don't stay in a relationship where you feel belittled and disrespected. Take care of yourself and prioritize your own well-being."

8/10 regret
0
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@u/Former_Hearing_793about 1 month ago
personalmoral dilemma
"called cousins to report thief"
reported thief to cousins, who caught and beat him
What I wish I knew
"considered alternative actions"
Advice

"think before acting in similar situations"

6/10 regret
0
Author
@u/Sushi_for_lunchabout 1 month ago
personaleducation
"didn't study for exam"
broke dad's trust, wasted time on cheating boyfriend
What I wish I knew
"studying would've helped"
Advice

"don't let emotions cloud judgment"

10/10 regret
0
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@u/Used_Success_5057about 1 month ago
personalemotional distress
"became a cam model"
I'm consumed by guilt and heartbreak, lying to loved ones
What I wish I knew
"the true nature of the job would affect me so deeply"
Advice

"think twice before pursuing a job that may harm your mental health"

10/10 regret
0
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@u/winter_blue_53about 1 month ago
personalfear of being alone
"broke up with boyfriend after 3 months"
ex didn't support me after friend's unwanted touch
What I wish I knew
"ex's support was lacking"
Advice

"don't settle for someone who doesn't support you"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u/frolickingjonabout 1 month ago
personalrelationship
"pushed for clarity in a breakup"
I accused her of being avoidant and immature, causing tension in our amicable post-breakup relationship
What I wish I knew
"how to handle my desire for clarity without escalating the situation"
Advice

"be clear and direct in your communication to avoid misunderstandings"

8/10 regret
0
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@u/ThrowRAadvebabout 1 month ago
personalrelationship
"My boyfriend is going to stay with his family for a few weeks"
I feel like he's rage baiting me
What I wish I knew
"he would be honest about his intentions"
Advice

"communicate openly with your partner"

8/10 regret
0
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@u/Horror_Mix8698about 1 month ago
personalbreakup
"Deciding whether to break no contact"
Constantly overthinking and wondering about the relationship
What I wish I knew
"How to move forward without compromising self-respect"
Advice

"Don't let fear of being seen as weak hold you back from closure"

8/10 regret
0