8/10
RegretMet a married man at the bar
I had sex with a married man I met at the bar
PersonalInfidelity
1/10
SettledQuitted smoking for 2 weeks
Attended gay pride parade without smoking
PersonalQuitting Smoking
2/10
SettledHooked up with a married woman
Hooked up with a married hijabi who wanted to use me for throat sex
PersonalInfidelity
8/10
Regrettrying to outgrow old self
get angry and blame self around family
PersonalSelf-Improvement
2/10
SettledHad sex with women in relationships
Had sex with women in relationships without knowing they were in relationships initially
PersonalSexual
6/10
Regretwanted to wear bib overalls
my parents initially rejected my idea of wearing bib overalls, but later changed their minds
PersonalIdentity
1/10
SettledHaving divorce shower
Had divorce shower with family
PersonalDivorce
1/10
SettledRan into 6-foot waves to rescue family friend
Rescued family friend from 100 yards out in rough Pacific waters
PersonalRescue Attempt
5/10
MixedHiring developers without clear goals
I wasted time and money on unnecessary features
PersonalCareer
3/10
MixedBelieved I was worthless
Believed mom's lies, stayed in rut
PersonalOvercoming Insecurity
1/10
Settledresisted temptation
resisted temptation while on the road
PersonalSobriety
8/10
RegretGot a cat, ignored responsibilities
I'm frustrated because I wanted a cat for years but can't afford one now
PersonalPet Ownership
5/10
MixedImprove social skills and mindset
Struggling with insecurities & jealousy, avoiding friends
PersonalSelf-Improvement
1/10
SettledI pieced together MI5 surveillance
I figured out MI5 was investigating me through online activity
PersonalOutsmarting Mi5
10/10
SevereNIAT promised MAANG mentors
NIAT delivered zero mentors, freshers taught material they barely knew
PersonalEducation
4/10
Mixedcall in sick
Afraid to drive down icy hill, don't want to call out, so I'm stuck
PersonalCareer
2/10
SettledSkip first department event
Attended event despite anxiety, had a good time
PersonalSocial Anxiety
2/10
SettledSeeking autonomy at work
Sitting at a desk with little fulfillment
PersonalCareer
8/10
Regretasked for a raise
My manager invited my director to a 1:1 meeting to deliver a 3% raise without telling me, then my director made excuses for not promoting me to the salary band floor.
PersonalCareer
10/10
SevereTolerated invasive behavior at home
My boss entered my home, opened my fridge, and threatened to fire me after seeing spoiled food
PersonalWorkplace Boundary