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4 months ago · 1 year after
6/10
Regret

Responding to insensitive remarks

My boss's comments made me feel disrespected and belittled

What I wish I knew
To calmly address the issue without escalating it
Office PoliticsConfronting Out Of Touch Comments
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@u/DescriptionFew74335 months ago · a few months after
8/10
Regret

Survive long enough to get severance/a new job

Manager has become emotionally immature, refusing to make eye contact or respond directly, criticizing me in front of my team, and giving conflicting instructions

What I wish I knew
That I could leave the company sooner
Office PoliticsManaging Difficult Manager
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@u/Independent-Put7336 months ago · e.g. 1 year after
1/10
Settled

Focused on being valuable, not just pleasant

Realized emotional intelligence and perception management are key to career growth

What I wish I knew
Started learning office politics and emotional intelligence earlier
Office PoliticsCareer Growth
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@u/Hot_Nose4346 months ago · 1 year after
9/10
Severe

imposed quiet hour

Manager scheduled meetings during quiet hour, created confusing rules

What I wish I knew
Meeting scheduling should not conflict with quiet hour rules
Office PoliticsManagement Decisions
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